Living with my adult children wasn't the retirement I imagined. It's crowded but wonderful.
The author lives with her daughter and her family in a farm in Oregon. Courtesy of the author My husband and I retired to our Oregon farm full time. We now share the farmhouse with our daughter, son-in-law, and grandson. Multi-generational living has brought both chaos and deep joy. My husband and I bought our farm in Banks, Oregon, 25 miles outside Portland, in 2017. From the start, we dreamed of retiring there and envisioned multiple generations of our family living on the property. We had plenty of room with acreage, a four-bedroom farmhouse , and a barn. My daughter Maria and her husband Stephen moved to the farm where she ran her horse business while my husband Scot and I lived in Montana, following a job for him. Retirement took longer than we planned. And we never envisioned living in a multigenerational home . My daughter paid us rent We longed for the ease of country living and wanted to help our daughter launch her business: training horses, teaching people to ride, and car...