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I was burned out postpartum. A trip taught me how to embrace community and changed how I parent.

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The author says a two-month trip to India made her realize she needed community. Courtesy of the author We went to India to introduce our son to family, and ended up healing our own burnout as new parents. Two months of community support showed us how much we were missing by parenting in isolation. We learned to trust our instincts, embrace flexibility, and lean on others for support. Six months postpartum , I collapsed on the floor after work, exhausted from eczema-driven nighttime wake-ups and the thought of another day. After third-degree tearing, iron infusions, and mood struggles, I was running on empty. As my son's first birthday neared, nights slowly improved, but daytime exhaustion ramped up as his mobility increased. My husband and I had hit a wall. Needing a reset and for our new son to meet the family, we booked a two-month trip to India . We had family support Two layovers and three flights later, we touched down in Bagdogra in the Himalayan foothills. Stepping from ste...

There's no joy in Silicon Valley these days, Menlo Ventures partner says: 'The rich aren't particularly happy either'

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A rainy day in San Francisco. Anadolu/Anadolu via Getty Images No one is happy in Silicon Valley , Menlo Ventures partner Deedy Das says. Not the average tech worker, not the middle manager, not even the founders who've struck it rich. He said that while the AI boom is creating huge wealth, workers are facing an existential crisis. In San Francisco, the AI boom is creating fame, fortune — and existential dread. As rapid technological development widens the gap between the haves and the have-nots, a sort of machine-age ennui has set across San Francisco, says Deedy Das, a partner at venture capital firm Menlo Ventures. Das said in a post on X, which had almost a thousand responses by Sunday afternoon, that over the past five years, the fortunes of a small group of employees at leading AI companies , like Anthropic, OpenAI, and Nvidia, as well as some smaller startups, have "skyrocketed." Money, however, it seems, really doesn't always buy happiness. Those who've m...

My daughter is a 'trinket kid.' Her collections are taking over our house.

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The author says she has a trinket kid. Courtesy of the author I have a trinket daughter, as mom influencers have been sharing on TikTok. The collecting and arranging began when she was a toddler. The fact that her collections cover every surface can get overwhelming sometimes. Recently, I saw a TikTok video by a mom about her trinket daughter . She panned over her 5-year-old's collections of tiny treasures all across her bedroom. It could have been my daughter's room. Or let's be honest, my entire house right now. My daughter has been a collector (or hoarder, depending on how you look at it) of tiny treasures since she was a toddler. The collecting of tiny objects began when she was a toddler My daughter was only 1 when we noticed her propensity for collecting small items from around the house, sometimes toys, sometimes not, and then arranging them. There was the play kitchen canister, topped by a swim diaper and crowned with a stuffed pineapple, which appeared on the co...

Research repository ArXiv will ban authors for a year if they let AI do all the work

ArXiv is doing more to crack down on the careless use of large language models in scientific papers. from TechCrunch https://ift.tt/Masyupj via IFTTT

Inside the Air Force One plane used by 8 presidents, where Lyndon B. Johnson was sworn in after JFK's assassination

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Eight US presidents flew on this Air Force One plane known as SAM 26000. George Wirt/Shutterstock SAM 26000, a Boeing VC-137C, operated as Air Force One from 1962 to 1998, carrying eight presidents. Lyndon Johnson was sworn in on board, and the plane transported John F. Kennedy's body from Texas. SAM 26000 is housed at the National Museum of the US Air Force, where visitors can walk through it. "If history itself had wings, it would probably be this aircraft," Vice President Al Gore said of the SAM 26000 Air Force One plane upon its retirement in 1998. The first Air Force jet designed and built specifically for US presidents, SAM 26000 (pronounced two six thousand) carried eight presidents between 1962 and 1998 — every leader from President John F. Kennedy to President Bill Clinton. After 13,000 flying hours over 36 years of service, the plane was retired to the National Museum of the US Air Force in Dayton, Ohio, where it remains on display. I visited the museum in Au...

A hotel check-in system left a million passports and driver’s licenses open for anyone to see

The tech company that maintains the hotel check-in system set its cloud storage to public, allowing anyone to access customers' data without a password. from TechCrunch https://ift.tt/enjxPgb via IFTTT