Everyone expected my husband and me to merge our friend groups. We never did.
My husband and I having separate friend groups has been great for our marriage. Maria Polansky My husband and I have been married for five years, yet I've only met his friends a handful of times. Starting in a long-distance relationship set the precedent for us to have separate social circles. Having separate friends helps us pursue our different interests and keeps our marriage exciting. About a month ago, my husband took off for the weekend to celebrate his best friend's birthday without me. He didn't expect me to accompany him, nor was I sad at the thought of not joining him. In fact, I'd already made my own weekend plans, including dinner with a friend that my husband hasn't even met. Even though we've been together for eight years and married for five, I can count the number of times I've met most of his friends on my hand. Although many couples merge friend groups , we've mostly kept ours separate. It's not that we don't like each other...