We couldn't afford to pay for my mom's dementia assisted living anymore. She moved into a tiny house next door to me.
Lori Bufka moved her mom into a trailer home near hers in Arizona as a long-term care solution. Lori Bufka Lori Bufka, 64, cares for her aging mother in Arizona due to high assisted living costs. Bufka's mother lives in a nearby trailer, reducing care costs and enabling family support. Tech aids Bufka in remotely monitoring her mother, enhancing her caregiving abilities. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Lori Bufka, 64, who is caring for her mother with dementia in Arizona. Assisted living became too expensive for her mother, so Bufka moved her into a trailer next to their home, where her mother would have enough space and safety. This interview has been edited for length and clarity. I was a college professor and retired from a community college in Florida. I raised two boys, both of whom are married, and I have five grandchildren. I had retired to do van life with my partner, who has been with me for seven years. I realized, though, that you can only do so mu...